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Smack ban 'a step too far'

07 Jan, 2009 03:00 AM
CALLS to ban the smacking of children have been knocked down by NSW Nationals’ leader Andrew Stoner – a father of five.

Australian psychologists wanted smacking outlawed after research revealed a third of child homicides were caused by “fatal child abuse”.

Mr Stoner said child abuse was a serious issue, but putting a veto on smacking was not the solution.

“As a father I know that there are, on rare occasions, times when the parent needs to smack their child,” he said.

Mr Stoner believed the government had a responsibility to intervene in cases where children may be at serious risk of harm from their parents.

“But the total banning of smacking is a step too far,” he said.

“Already many parents feel their rights to discipline their children have been eroded.”

Most Australian parents were responsible adults who would never wish to harm their children, Mr Stoner said.

But this didn’t mean they shouldn’t be allowed to smack their children.

“Of course we need to ensure the safety of the child is paramount, but that last thing we want for our society is a nanny state,” he said.

Port Macquarie’s Krystal Tahi Tahi believes there’s a fine line parents should not cross.

“In your own home you have to discipline,” she said. “But there is a difference between beating your child and a little smack.”

Brent Anittilla, also of Port Macquarie, said it would depend on the circumstances.

“But I don’t think really you should smack your children.”

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Creating a law that bans smacking will not work, it will still happen, humans like all animals can and in some situations go to far and seriously injure or kill their offspring, and don't think that because we have a reasoning brain it wont happen,

I copped it hard growing up, but I didn't flog my kids like I got, I used my voice, took things or toys off them and as a last resort a smack on the hand or bum, because sometimes that little smack was all that was needed,

I was hit with the jug cord, peach stick, rubber water pipe, school canes, a stock whip and, once, with a cattle prod - along with a few other things I wouldn't mention.

My hand was the only thing I ever smacked my kids with and it was just for that little bit of shock value on the child when they were putting themselves in danger like continueing to go back and play with electrical things that could shock, climbing things that could fall on them, biting or hurting someone else.

I gave both my kids a smack for hitting another kid for no reason. Sitting them away from everyone else and ignoring them for tantrums worked to a point but sometimes a smack on bum ended it. Laws are broken every day all this law will do is make criminals out of good parents and those parents that would have lost it with their kids will still injure or kill, no matter what experts tell us or what the law says.

Posted by Tom, 7/01/2009 8:07:45 PM
Didn't Dr Spock from the 1950/60 latter Lament that he destroyed a Generation of Children by writing in his book that parents should not hit their children?
Posted by Steve, 8/01/2009 6:42:05 AM
Smacking their children is a time-honoured practise extending back thousands of years.

Wise old King Solomon from way back, commended it. If there have been more deaths from violence due to parents beating their kids, maybe that's because parents have been watching too much violence on TV. Parents need to be educated somehow in giving discipline to children. There are many ways to discipline kids apart from smacking. But parents should not whack their kids while they themselves are "hot under the collar." They should compose themselves - regain their cool - and explain to their child while they are going to be smacked, and then smack them on the bottom with an open hand.

This is training and discipline, not abuse.

Posted by Bob, 8/01/2009 12:03:21 PM
In response to Steve, Bob and Tom. What the hell are you thinking? God only knows whats going through your heads. I was smacked as a child and I grew up promising NEVER to smack my children, and to this day they NEVER have and NEVER will be smacked. I am not a 'do-gooder', but merely a parent who believes in other methods not invloving smacking.
Posted by Fred, 17/01/2009 6:52:19 AM

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